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A Psychologist’s Guide for Horse Riders For many horse riders, the thrill of competition is what fuels countless hours in the saddle, the joy of partnership with their horse, and the pursuit of mastery in their chosen discipline. Yet, as a Psychologist who works closely with equestrian athletes, I can attest that one of the most common challenges riders face is performance anxiety—those nerves and worries that surge before, during, or even after the show ring. Performance anx

I've always loved the quote: "If you don't sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice." In the equestrian world, we’re quick to focus on the obvious sacrifices: our time  (early mornings, long days) and our money  (lessons, vet bills, feed). We accept that these material trade-offs are necessary for progress. While we often accept the sacrifices of time and money, but we are often no so willing to make the most important sacrifices, that is the comfort o

If you scroll through equestrian social media or attend enough clinics, you will inevitably hear about NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) . It is often presented as the "secret weapon" for rider mindset—a set of techniques designed to "reprogram" your brain, delete fear, and install confidence instantly. It’s a seductive promise. Who wouldn’t want a mental "delete" button for that anxiety loop about the oxer in the warm-up ring? For those who would rather watch a video that e

It's a feeling many riders know, but few talk about: the knot in your stomach, the shaky hands, the sudden urge to find any excuse not to ride. You love your horse, you want to ride, but that fear just won't budge. It can feel like a huge secret, a personal failing, or a sign that you're not a "real" equestrian. Let's be clear: it's none of those things. It's a completely human experience, and it's something we can work with. Tricky Brains   Your brain is designed to keep you

Restoring Confidence After a Riding Accident To ride is to chase the perfect balance of trust and skill, where human and horse move as one in a partnership that feels almost magical.  Yet, beneath the serene image of rider and horse gliding across a field, there’s an inherent vulnerability. Every equestrian accepts, consciously or not, that accidents can and do happen. A fall, a near-miss, or even a frightening incident that doesn’t result in injury can have a profound and la

Every single one of us, from the Olympic pros to the weekend warriors, started somewhere. Maybe it was on a fuzzy lead-rein pony, maybe it was just imagining that first canter out in the open, or maybe it was just the quiet comfort of brushing your first horse. That beginning holds the pure, original magic, and it’s a memory worth revisiting. The Finish Line Trap We all have big, inspiring goals, and we should ! That big show, that perfect dressage test, the clear cross-count

I've always loved the quote : If you don't sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice. In the equestrian world, we’re quick to focus on the obvious sacrifices: our time (early mornings, long days) and our money (lessons, vet bills, feed). We accept that these material trade-offs are necessary for progress. While we often accept the sacrifices of time and money, but the most destructive sacrifices are the mental habits we don't even realise we're makin

A Psychologist’s Guide for Horse Riders For many horse riders, the thrill of competition is what fuels countless hours in the saddle, the joy of partnership with their horse, and the pursuit of mastery in their chosen discipline. Yet, as a Psychologist who works closely with equestrian athletes, I can attest that one of the most common challenges riders face is performance anxiety—those nerves and worries that surge before, during, or even after the show ring. Performance anx